The evening her household moved into their historic St. Charles house final summer time, Elizabeth Suwanski sauntered into the eating room to admire a show case of memorabilia from its unique house owners.
The glass field got here with the home, stuffed with reminiscences from one other century, one other lifetime. It was a 1910 time capsule of types, the contents of which had been discovered hidden within the partitions just some years earlier by neighbors who purchased and rehabbed the property.
However as Suwanski studied the relics, she observed one did not fairly match with the remainder: a 1948 baseball card of Terry Donahue, catcher and utility infielder for the All-American Women Skilled Baseball League.
Donahue, a neighbor later defined, had lived for many years in that very home on Third Avenue together with her longtime companion, Pat Henschel. The pair saved their lesbian relationship hidden for greater than 60 years, presenting themselves as shut associates and roommates earlier than popping out to their households of their 80s.
Their love story is now the topic of a Netflix documentary, “A Secret Love,” woven along with snapshots of Donahue’s baseball profession, the couple’s work at an inside design agency and the LGBTQ group in Chicago within the 1950s.
Terry Donahue, proper, and her longtime companion, Pat Henschel, lived for many years in a historic St. Charles home. After neighbors purchased and refurbished it, they returned for a go to.
– Courtesy of Pat Pretz
The home’s former residents captivated Suwanski, who tracked down an autographed Donahue baseball card on eBay and positioned it with the unsigned model contained in the show case. Beside it, she added a set of the couple’s previous keys with a keychain labeled “P + T again door.”
Suwanski wished them to be remembered, their affect on girls’s sports activities and the LGBTQ motion to be commemorated, their lives to be without end intertwined with the wealthy historical past of the home.
‘Very particular individuals’
Sixteen years in the past, shortly after shifting together with her husband to the St. Charles historic district, Pat Pretz launched herself to one in every of her new neighbors throughout the road.
At first, Henschel was “a bit of bit cool” as she defined that she lived there together with her cousin, Terry — one of many fibs the couple typically used when assembly somebody new. But it surely wasn’t lengthy earlier than Pretz realized there was extra to their relationship than they let on.
Terry Donahue, left, and Pat Henschel lived for many years in a historic St. Charles home that had its unique stained glass home windows and crown molding.
– Courtesy of Pat Pretz
“I believe they’d the thought that if we knew (they had been homosexual), we could exclude them, and it was simply the alternative,” Pretz stated. “We actually cared for them and admired their long-standing relationship.”
Henschel and Donahue turned out to be the “kindest neighbors,” she stated — at all times correct and dressed to the nines, but in addition heat and humorous and considerate.
When Donahue realized that Pretz’s granddaughter preferred baseball, she gave the woman a signed baseball card and informed tales about her time enjoying within the girls’s group that impressed the 1992 movie “A League of Their Personal.”
After they went on journeys, they introduced again luggage stuffed with rocks for a bit of boy who lived subsequent door.
They had been energetic, real and younger at coronary heart, capable of discuss to kids as simply as they might somebody their very own age.
Pat Henschel, left, and Terry Donahue revisited their former house on Third Avenue in St. Charles after neighbors purchased and refurbished it. The couple, now the topic of a brand new Netflix documentary, lived there for many years whereas maintaining their lesbian relationship hidden into previous age.
– Courtesy of Pat Pretz
“They simply had that kind of character,” Pretz stated. “They had been very particular individuals.”
As they entered their twilight years, the couple confronted a brand new set of triumphs and challenges: Donahue being named grand marshal in a St. Charles parade, shifting to a close-by senior dwelling group, getting married in a small ceremony in 2015.
When Donahue was identified with Parkinson’s illness, Pretz stated, “that simply broke Pat’s coronary heart. She nervous about her and wished to do what was finest for her. She at all times had that in thoughts.”
Donahue and Henschel liked all the pieces about their 1898 Queen Anne house, with its unique crown molding and copper doorknobs and colourful stained glass home windows, neighbors recalled. However the pair ultimately determined to place it up on the market about 5 years in the past — and so they informed Pretz to purchase it.
The proposition intrigued Pretz, who consulted together with her husband, Tom, and one other neighborhood couple, Laura Rice and Pat Roche, all of whom have ties to group teams targeted on preservation. The home, like many within the space, had been beforehand transformed from a single-family residence right into a two-flat. In order that they determined to revive it to its former state.
“It simply oozes attraction,” Rice stated. “It was such a pleasure to work on.”
Loos had been renovated. Doorways had been taken right down to let in additional pure mild. An oak staircase and coal-burning hearth had been preserved. Layers of linoleum had been eliminated, unveiling unique maple flooring.
After which, whereas updating the kitchen, the workforce unearthed a treasure trove throughout the partitions: a Bible, a narrative e-book, glasses, toys, a bow tie, a 1910 calendar, a younger woman’s pocket book stuffed with schoolwork and extra, all traced again to the primary household who lived there.
These artifacts assisted in securing a historic landmark designation for the residence, now dubbed the Locke-Marchialette Home.
“It is what you dream about whenever you rehab a home, discovering treasure within the partitions,” Rice stated. “And we did.”
Historical past and heritage
Elizabeth Suwanski and her husband, Adam, fell in love with the home the second they stepped inside and observed its 9-foot ceilings, pure wooden floors, the best way the rooms circulation.
Its distinctive historical past and “superb character … despatched me excessive with pleasure,” she stated.
They bought the house from one other household who had lived there briefly as soon as the renovation was full. However not earlier than Donahue and Henschel returned for a go to.
It is at all times a bit of nerve-wracking to ask former residents again to a renovated house, Pretz stated. However Donahue and Henschel appeared impressed with not solely the revitalized aesthetics but in addition the case of mementos that had unknowingly lived amongst them for thus a few years.
Pretz and Rice nonetheless hear from Henschel occasionally, they are saying, although it is evident how a lot she misses Donahue, who died final 12 months. To their former neighbors, the reminiscence of the spry, zestful couple will at all times stay on in the home they adored.
“I really like that St. Charles is concentrated on the historical past and the heritage of the group,” Pretz stated. “That is the half that comes alive to us.”
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